Showing posts with label Empathy and Understanding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Empathy and Understanding. Show all posts

Monday, 12 May 2025

My Good School, Sunday the 11th May 2025

 Sunday School # 188

Introduction: In Door-to-Door Bookstore, Carsten Henn introduces us to Carl Kollhoff, a reclusive bookseller with a gentle heart, who delivers books by hand to a select group of customers. In Chapter 4: "Great Expectations", Carl reflects on the expectations placed upon him by others and the ones he has internalized for himself. This chapter explores the theme of self-worth, transformation, and quiet courage through Carl’s evolving understanding of his role in the lives of his book recipients and his growing connection with the spirited young girl, Schascha.

1. Contrast and Connection Between Generations

Question: Schascha is bold, talkative, and full of curiosity, while Carl is reserved, cautious, and set in his ways. How do their contrasting personalities help each other grow?
Have you ever had a friendship or relationship with someone very different from you? What did you learn from them?

2. Growth Through Relationships

Question: Carl begins to open up and take small risks after spending time with Schascha. What qualities in Schascha help him change?
Think about a person who encouraged you to change in a positive way. What did they do that made an impact?

3.  Empathy and Understanding

Question: Schascha quickly picks up on Carl’s emotions and routines, showing empathy despite her young age. What does this say about her emotional intelligence, and how does it affect their relationship?
Why is empathy important in building strong relationships, even with people we don’t fully understand at first?

4.  Interpersonal Skills and Emotional Intelligence
Question: Schascha shows a natural ability to connect with others—she’s curious, empathetic, and unafraid to speak her mind. How do her interpersonal skills begin to influence Carl and the way he interacts with others?
Reflect on someone in your life who, like Schascha, uses their interpersonal skills to bring people together. What have you learned from them?

विषय: "अपने रुचि और कौशल के अनुसार व्यवसाय चुनो" (Choose a career based on your interests and skills)

भूमिका:

हर व्यक्ति में कोई कोई खास रुचि (interest) और कौशल (skill) छिपा होता है। जब हम अपने कार्यक्षेत्र का चयन इन्हीं दोनों के आधार पर करते हैं, तो केवल सफलता मिलती है, बल्कि काम में खुशी और आत्म-संतोष भी मिलता है। इसलिए यह जरूरी है कि हम अपने करियर की दिशा तय करने से पहले अपनी रुचियों और क्षमताओं को पहचानें।

प्रश्न 1: आपकी कौन-सी रुचि है जिसे आप पूरे मन से करते हैं, बिना थके हुए?

प्रश्न 2: आपके अनुसार कौन-सा ऐसा कौशल है जो आपके अंदर प्राकृतिक रूप से मौजूद है?

प्रश्न 3: क्या आपने कभी अपने किसी शौक या रुचि को करियर में बदलने के बारे में सोचा है? क्यों या क्यों नहीं?

प्रश्न 4: अगर आपको मौका मिले कि आप अपनी रुचि के अनुसार कोई व्यवसाय चुन सकें, तो आप क्या चुनेंगे और क्यों?

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