Grade VI
Gyanshree School
You don't need to have a proper diary, just take a piece of paper and vent all your feelings. But then, when you have an excellent journal, and at the end of the week, you look at what you have written, you can reflect on your situations in a better way. I think expressing yourself by writing is much better because when you tell them with a person not necessary, they would actually understand your feelings, but that's just my way of doing it!
On the cover of my diary I have written - Open if you dare, don't you dare try to do that and of course have used lots of stickers and decorations to make it look beautiful. If you open my diary, you'll see torn pages that I pulled out of anger (and sometimes happiness). Even though you know I didn't mean it when I said, "Don't you dare open my diary", I am requesting you not to open it!
Every day is a new day with new feelings,
By writing, you feel you are healing.
Keep a small diary,
Tell all your thoughts about society.
You can boast,
And teel how you burnt a toast!
You can talk about all your friends and the things they did,
And how you want a best friend who is a friendly kid.
Share everything you want,
With no worry about the handwriting or font!
Rishona Chopra
Grade VI
Gyanshree School
In the book Totto-chan, Takahashi was short, but no one talked about it because they probably didn't realise that he was disabled or had faults. They just accepted him as a child.
When we grow up, we know more, we know the faults, we know when one is disabled and when we see that, we even stop feeling pity for them! That is why our brain cannot use it to its total capacity because the more we know, the more problems we create. Life will unfold itself. We don't have to force it to open its destiny.
In an extract from Peter Pan, Peter says to Wendy: Children don't believe in fairies because they know more than what they are supposed to know, and that's why fairies are fading from the world.
Accepting people is looking at their good qualities, not at their faults, because after all, everyone is different and no one is perfect.
Every day, we encounter different people with different personalities, some are very judgemental, or some don't judge according to their appearance. A few years ago, I met a woman who was an acid attack survivor. Her face was very burnt out that the nagging aunties would gossip about her. She heard the conversation but did not say anything.
Accepting limitations of friends and family important, like: Snoring, Sleepwalking and incidents like the story of Takahashi. In addtion we must follow some habits of friends too.
'Takahashi,' the value is Acceptance, like Totto-chan accepts the boy as her friend.
Can't we accept others as our friends? Will you still not receive a person if disabled or with any other challenge?
What are the similarities and differences between Totto-chan and Simar?
Totto-chan is a free-spirited person who loves to find joy in the most mischievous and different activities. Even though, I try not to engage in playful activities, I love to try new things. Totto-chan is not outcome-driven. She likes to live in the moment and enjoy something to its extent. However, I am very much outcome driven and am a future-oriented person. She wants to just go for things. While, I am someone who creates a list of pros and cons in my mind even before taking small steps and think of worst-case scenarios and best-case scenarios and all the possible outcomes of taking that step. And thus, I take a long time to make even the simplest of decisions. I wish I were more of a spontaneous person like Totto-chan but growing up seems to get in the way of that.
But nonetheless, I try. I try to take chances and
just go for it. But at the end of the day, I try to safe steps. Despite many
differences, Totto-chan and I have some similarities in the
Venn diagram above.
Why did Totto-chan need to lie to her mother about the
dress despite knowing she wouldn't get scolded?
Even though Totto-chan was aware that her mother is a very
patient and considerate person, she felt the need to lie to her mother about
her torn dress. I believe that our parents, despite their patience, are our parents.
They are the force that drives you to do good deeds so they are proud of you.
However, when something terrible happens, many of us ought to lie to them to
not upset them and clear our names off. According to some people, Totto-chan
lied for her mother's sake so she wouldn't get upset on hearing about her favorite
clothes getting torn. According to others, she lied for an hour's sake to avoid getting blamed for tearing the dress. But according to me, her reason for
lying to her mom was a mixture of both. She didn't want to upset her mother and
did not want to be the reason for her mom's disappointment. And thus, she chose
to lie.
Many children lie to their parents even for the most minor things, but the ultimate truth, they are superheroes who have their ways of finding out everything. Their superpowers make us tell the truth without realizing it. The same thing happens with me. I have a bizarre habit of smiling vivaciously whenever I lie about something. For some reason, it also happens when I say the truth but get asked if I am lying. For instance, whenever I start watching YouTube without telling my mom at a time when I'm not supposed to watch it, and my mom comes and asks what I'm doing, I manage to change the screen, but the vast (and unflattering) smile on my face gives it all away. I perceive that as a superpower because as a kid, I am lovely at making stories for not doing something when its anyone other than my parents. But my annoyingly honest nature gives it away at the end of the day…